Our Team
Our team is made up of people that are FOR Students and want to see them thrive. Whether on our board or in our schools, we are all determined to do whatever is necessary to help better prepare teens for their transition to what is next.
Founders
WHITNEY D’ALLAIRD
Executive Director
Hi, I am Whitney D’Allaird and in December of 2017, I lost my oldest son Tyler to suicide – 15 weeks into his freshmen year of college. I do not want other parents to experience the pain I currently feel.
Unfortunately, I never had many of the conversations with Tyler that I now know – we MUST be having with our children. THIS – is why I founded FOR Students.
We are here to teach and talk with students about what matters most to them, what they are experiencing in their lives and give them tools to help themselves and their peers.
ED WIlliams
Programming Director
Ed has spent his adult life working with young people and their families. A degree in education, a teacher for 12 years, a student pastor for 8 years, a trained life coach, and a dad of 2 teenage girls. Ed has spent the last 21 years of his life helping teens and parents thrive. It’s simply in his DNA.
In the fall of 2021 Ed was planning to return to teaching, but was invited by Whitney to come and help create the teams and programs that now make up FOR Students. He is more excited than ever about the impact these programs are having and their potential to help so many students in the future.
Hear from our founders
WHITNEY D’ALLAIRD
Executive Director
Contact: Whitney@forstudents.org
Hi, I am Whitney D’Allaird and in December of 2017, I lost my oldest son Tyler to suicide – 15 weeks into his freshmen year of college. I do not want other parents to experience the pain I currently feel.
Unfortunately, I never had many of the conversations with Tyler that I now know – we MUST be having with our children. THIS – is why I founded FOR Students.
We are here to teach and talk with students about what matters most to them, what they are experiencing in their lives and give them tools to help themselves and their peers.
ED WIlliams
Programming Director
Contact: Ed@forstudents.org
Ed has spent his adult life working with young people and their families. A degree in education, a teacher for 12 years, a student pastor for 8 years, a trained life coach, and a dad of 2 teenage girls. Ed has spent the last 21 years of his life helping teens and parents thrive. It’s simply in his DNA.
Board
derrick shirley
CHAIR | Head of Human Resources, Maersk North America at A.P. Moller-Maersk, 32 years | Officer US Navy Reserve, June 1987–June 1995
I foster growth in others by connecting people, resources and opportunities. In my 20+ years as a business leader, HR leader and non-profit leader I have been part of many successes (and a few failures). What always stands out for me is the journey of people and teams getting behind a goal and achieving it. Nothing gives me more fulfillment than watching my contributions lead to the success of others… and of course having a little fun on the way!
Danielle stoner
SECRETARY | Owner/Operator at The Red Radish, 9 years
Danielle is the owner of Red Radish Upstate, a catering company specializing in corporate lunch delivery services. She is a graduate of University of North Carolina at Charlotte and a certified ICF leadership coach. Danielle has dedicated the last 2 decades to developing leaders and helping individuals achieve success and fulfillment in their lives and at work.
kevin d’allaird
TREASURER | Varda Partners, 9 years
Kevin co-founded Varda Partners with long-time friend and colleague Joe Peterson in late 2013. Prior to founding Varda Partners, Kevin was a Senior Vice President at Red Ventures where he was instrumental in the early development, leadership and rapid growth of the company’s paid and natural search marketing channels.
Kevin graduated from Cornell University with a Bachelor of Science in Operations Research and Industrial Engineering. He has been a Charlotte, North Carolina, area resident for over 25 years with his wife Whitney and their three boys.
advisory Board
patrick balsley
Sana Counseling
Patrick is a North Carolina Addiction Specialist Professional Practice Board Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor. He has been working with families affected by substance use for a decade. Patrick is a member of the clinical team at Herren Project, a national non-profit organization founded by former NBA basketball player Chris Herren and serves as a Wellness Coach and Structured Family Recovery®️ Counselor at T.R.U.S.T, a comprehensive case management company in New York, NY. In the Charlotte community, Patrick currently serves on the Behavioral Health Committee at Atrium Health Foundation and the Board of Directors at Emerald School of Excellence, the Carolina’s first Recovery High School. Patrick is also co-host of Champagne Problems, a podcast that takes a hard look at the normalization of alcohol in our culture.
AMY WORK
LCMHC, RPT | Renewed Counseling and Play Therapy
Amy is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC), and Registered Play Therapist (RPT). She holds a Masters Degree in Christian Counseling from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary in Charlotte, NC. She earned her Bachelor’s Degrees in Psychology and Sociology from The University of Georgia, as well as a minor in Child and Family Development. Amy is an active member of the American Counseling Association and the Association for Play Therapy, and continuously pursues up-to-date training on evidence-based mental health treatments.
Additionally, before Amy became a counselor, she worked as a high school teacher and enjoyed adapting her classroom and teaching to students with specific behavioral, emotional, or academic needs.
jennifer fights
LCMHC, NCC | BASE Cognitive Behavioral
Jennifer Fights is an EMDR psychotherapist working with adolescents, adults and families in private practice in Charlotte, NC. She is an EMDRIA Certified therapist and is a Consultant-In-Training. Jennifer received her master’s degree in Clinical Counseling from New York University in 2002, and has been a practicing clinician for over 20 years.
Jennifer’s early career focused on working with complex developmental trauma with youth and their families within the juvenile justice system, residential treatment centers and community mental health centers. Since transitioning to private practice in 2015, Jennifer’s areas of focus continue to include complex attachment trauma as well as treating complicated grief and bereavement and specializes in the trauma of suicide loss by families, loved ones and communities. She also treats individuals that struggle with suicidal thoughts and behaviors which gives her a unique perspective in working with the survivors of suicide loss.
As a lifelong learner, Jennifer regularly attends advanced EMDR trainings and has completed trainings in the R-TEP-G-TEP, and the IATP-C protocols for recent traumatic events. Jennifer is also a fully trained Level III DBT therapist.
amanda mcgough
PhD | BASE Cognitive Behavioral
Dr. McGough is a licensed psychologist with BASE Cognitive Behavioral in Charlotte, NC. She specializes in working with teens and young adults around concerns including grief, depression, anxiety and life transitions. Dr. McGough also serves as the President of the NC Chapter of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. She consults and speaks on suicide prevention and suicide brereavement on both a local and national level.
amanda cumbo
LCMHC | Rogers Christian Counseling
Amanda earned her MA in Christian Counseling at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary here in Charlotte, NC, and has a BS in Biology from University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill.
staff
kellie shope
EVENT DIRECTOR
CHRIS LEE
MEDIA DIRECTOR
JANE TUNE
DIRECTOR OF CONNECTIONS
HENRY DAVIS
DIRECTOR OF ENGAGEMENT
LARA ROUSE
LOGISTICS DIRECTOR